We talk about psychological changes, and how to deal with adventures in new disorders.

Everyone is depressed and anxious when you hear about the cancer.
Mania is common: Maybe channel it into something productive-ish?
Insomnia makes you crazy. Do what you have to for a good night’s sleep a few times a week.
YOU NEED THERAPY if you or someone you love has cancer. Everyone needs therapy.
Disassociation is a coping mechanism, and things are just WEIRD in your life. You ARE different, and you are still you.
Look for psycho-social resources through your hospital or employer.
No one knows what they are doing, and—look at that!— neither do you!
Get to know your new stress/depressed/anxious/feels barometer.
Try new things: meditation, therapy, reiki, massage, crystals, supplements, CBD oil if available in your state.
Eat for comfort and health.
Instead of an existential discussion, learn to say “I’m doing fine considering the circumstances” or “I’m in pain, but nothing out of the ordinary”.
Make a Reality Committee for phone calls or IRL convos.
Authenticity and vulnerability leads to healing.
Exercise will make sleep and everything a little better. Do what you can, even if it’s just walking down the street.